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jessica533

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[交流] 【Discussion】I really do not like this noise.

Two weeks ago I prayed to god for a new person, because i don't want to be alone. That would be a bad situation if I  was the only student in my lab. I was so excited when I was noticed that a post doc. would come. Two weeks later, I cannot be excited again. Is this a gift or trial from god? I am really tired of her, she is so noisy. She cannot stop speaking even for a minute. She speak out about almost everything. I have never met such a noisy person. Sometimes I pretend to be very busy and did not hear what she was speaking, she will talk to me a second time. Oh, my ... I am going to be mad Everybody need some personal time to focus on their work.  What should i do?

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Thank you for your warm heart and suggestions!
I feel better now. That's right, i should not complain of colleagues or friends around me. I think speaking too much is just her habit which is hard to stop. Actually, she has some advantages, such as frankness and warm-heart. I changed my attitude and things became better. I will just speak less and keep polite to her.
Have a good day, everyone.


[ Last edited by jessica533 on 2010-9-10 at 08:08 ]
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fangye0413(金币+2):very good attitude~ 2010-09-09 14:56:58
fangye0413(金币+2):very good attitude~ 2010-09-09 14:58:02
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Do not complain about the behavior of your colleagues! They are friendly, and they do not want to hurt you at all. Gentlly but directlly tell them you need a short while to think about or deal with your own  private things, and during this period you dislike disturbing by other people. I think sunshiness and frankness are important virtue that each boy should has.

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s308100075

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chill. it doesnt matter
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Originally posted by s308100075 at 2010-09-09 08:18:24:
chill. it doesnt matter

welcome here~
let's pray for our lz~
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xuanxuankaoyan

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i have the the same kind of person in my lab. it is female.
it is disturbing.
5楼2010-09-09 08:35:54
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