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06230122

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[交流] 【Discussion】what do you think of friendship?

She used to be my best friend, but now things have changed dramaticlly. She is in deep love with a boy , and always comes back to our dormitory very late at night . We seldom talk , more exactly , we seldom have time to talk. We have totally diffrent lifestly since she fell  in love with that guy. It seems that we just drift apart. Admittedly, we have our own life to live, our path to go .Maybe  i just expect too much from our friendship. MY DEAR FRRENDS, I WOULD LIKE TO ASK YOU WHAT DO YOU THINK OF FRIENDSHIP , WHEN COMPARED WITH YOUR BELOVED ONE ? IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO MAKE SOME POSITIVE CHANGES?  THANK YOU !

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xia_chong(金币+1):Thank you for your opinion! 2010-08-21 21:37:51
06230122(金币+1):Hopefully, we can understand each other in a short time .thank you 2010-08-21 21:43:57
friend isnt the one who is always with you~~but the one who can still understand you even if you cant communicate with her for a long time~~
as you said, we all have our only life, so maybe sometimes she  need her own time to do something,like spending time with her lover ,you still here when she need to talk with you~~
i want to be a happy butterfly~~
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robiwang

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xia_chong(金币+2):I agree with you! 2010-08-21 19:00:03
06230122(金币+2):Be happy with your friend's happiness, that is friendship.Thank you for your sharing. 2010-08-21 19:07:12
You should be happy for her. And I sincerely hope you could find your Mr. Right early in your life. You know, soon or later, we would have grown-up and married and established one's own family, it really hurts as we can never or at least seldom play together, but this is life.

Be happy with your friend's happiness, that is friendship.  

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生活在这个世界上,却不属于这个世界。
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xia_chong(金币+2):Great! 2010-08-21 19:00:42
06230122(金币+1):yes, you're right,I'll try. 2010-08-21 19:08:59
Friendship is different from love, though neither is unnecessary. But, I think they couldn't be compared to some extent. Love is persnal. And lovers like to be with the other every minute. But when they marry or grownup, they would realize that they also need some other things including friends.
As her best friend, I think you should be pleased because your best friend have found her happiness.
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hailiang1029

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xia_chong(金币+2):Thank you for your opinion! 2010-08-21 19:01:17
06230122(金币+1):Get used to it ! thank you. 2010-08-21 19:10:29
well, relationship is kind of tough...it's...uh..you know, complicated. however, a friend is always a friend, that's it, she is in love, which has nothing to do with your friendship, can you see that? by the way, you can fall in love, too. why do you care about her so much? wake up, buddy, no bid deal, everyone is gonna be in love, you should happy for this, right? and you know what, get used to it, man.
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