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[交流] 【Original】Face the life with smile

Life is long and life is short. The God is generous to give each person a certain time to live in the world, which is the life. Also the God takes them back every second that is why we say “the greatest thief is the time”. So whether the life is long or short depends on your attitudes.
Yesterday, I talked with one of my friends for a long time. She is Korean and is going to finish her master study. Now she takes the internship in Turin for an international training system.  She looks tired and sad. Because she said she is worried about her future, so she cannot sleep well, has no appetite and is anxious about everything.
Maybe this is not particular problem for her, but a normal phenomenon for most of us. Indeed, to live in the society, we have too much pressure, such as housing, car and work…. Now China is facing a transitional period, there are a lot of problems to be solved. Most people have the living pressure. Even for the “Returned PhD”, they also face the same condition, but different levels. They cannot fulfill their ability in their wishes; they must face the traditional “rules” in the Chinese academic circle…
So, this is the life. You can say life is tough and feel anxious every day. But should we? I don’t think so. If we do that, we just find an excuse to punish ourselves. If we cannot change the world, we must learn to like it. Just think about that if you are happy the day will pass and if you are unhappy the day won’t wait for you, so why we wear the sadness on our face every day?  Also, if we are anxious to do nothing, the tomorrow will be coming, whereas if we are calm down to something, the tomorrow also come, so why we do not give up the anxious but with a calm mood.
   That is to say, if we keep a happy attitude, we can live meaningful every day, and tomorrow there will also be happiness waiting for you. On the other hands, if we are sad today, tomorrow will also be a pain for you. Which do you want to chose?
   Smile at the life and the life will smile back to you!

[ Last edited by xujie_tumu on 2010-8-12 at 18:17 ]

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