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jfq1985

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fangye0413(金币+1):welcome our new friend,good evening~ 2010-08-06 21:30:13
Firstly, you must bebieve in yourself, and then try your best to touch the world with your enthusiasm, not mind the temporary failure!
Good luck!
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11楼2010-08-06 20:25:00
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lxuyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1):If we are shy about it, start off with smile, then graduate to a friendly wave and hello.:tiger23::tiger40: Good night 2010-08-07 02:10:14
As what have mentioned before, first you should conquer you fearness inside.
Ask yourself from time to time, are you really want to overcome this weakness, ...
Then tell yourself: that's not big deal, I have mouth and I am the master of my mouth. Just open it up and say anything, even through it is nonsense, I say it, then I am the winner.
The second step, you need to observe how the other start up a conversion,
pay special attention to the subjects, their intentions and funny jokes ...
Then you can write them down or just keep it in mind, each word ...
In the third step, the real practise. Initially you start a conversation with the joke
or stories you previous prepared or any subject that commonly disscussed.
Probably it will be like you are reciting a speach at the beginning ...but it's the most important part, in this part you will adjust yourself incrementally.
You will add your own views on the subject and you can build up your confidence.
Your know, conversation is an interation between two speakers, so you really don't have to worry so much.
Maybe you just need some good subjects for different person.
To reiterate, just say sth, that's the key. at least you can say "hello?" to everybody ...
besides, everything can be prepared ahead of time, so find some interesting subjects though your meticulous obervation in life ...
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12楼2010-08-07 01:22:56
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judecca

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fangye0413(金币+2):thank you for your kindness~ 2010-08-07 08:43:32
Why do you wanna communicate with others? I think for most people, it is because you are willing to know others.  Break the ice to bring a conversation to who you are interested in, then talk something around his/her interested points, finally you are gonna make it. But I do not think you need to be communicative to every person, just be natural.
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13楼2010-08-07 06:21:58
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lxuyan(金币+1):Welcome~~ Our new friend~A bold attempt is half success~ Best wishes to you 2010-08-07 15:34:49
When you communicate with others,don't afraid to express yourself in oral English, even that is poor.Try it! Try again.
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14楼2010-08-07 13:45:10
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fangye0413(金币+1):hope you will find topic is around us~ 2010-08-12 08:44:51
I'm in the same situation with you. once I talk to someone, I become very nervous and cannot think out what I should say next.
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15楼2010-08-08 11:51:49
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鸡蛋黄

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Originally posted by Super_J at 2010-08-07 01:22:56:
As what have mentioned before, first you should conquer you fearness inside.
Ask yourself from time to time, are you really want to overcome this weakness, ...
Then tell yourself: that's not big  ...

thanks for your advice!!!
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16楼2010-08-10 20:54:35
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dengyuan0203

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fangye0413(金币+1):good advice,thank you~ 2010-08-12 08:43:59
If you want to talk with strangers, an interesting topic may be very important, you should know a lot about this topic to discuss furtherly.
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17楼2010-08-10 21:35:12
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Originally posted by dengyuan0203 at 2010-08-10 21:35:12:
If you want to talk with strangers, an interesting topic may be very important, you should know a lot about this topic to discuss furtherly.

thank you!!!
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18楼2010-08-10 21:50:27
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zhaoyu2881

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fangye0413(金币+1):very nice,morning~ 2010-08-12 08:43:39
i think, if you meet someone who you have never met, fristly, you should tell yourself in your heart, that is my good friend, i want to talk with this person, and i also want he/she to know myself...from your topic, i guess you are a honesty man,so show yourself bravely! good luck!
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Thatislife,onlylifehurts.
19楼2010-08-12 00:03:59
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Arnold119

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fangye0413(金币+2):thank you,morning~ 2010-08-12 08:43:08
I think it is important you can study what kind of occasion it is, and what kind of thing you want to communicate with others. You know, when you talk with others, you must talk 'somethings', so is it necessary? Just chat? or what you talk is important? Before you open you open your mouth, yon can think of what you going to say, and what it means to others and what kind of way you say it. So, be relax, and don't be too nervous, everything is in control, no people would superior to others, we just all people...
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