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【Discussion】how to improve my communicative ability?
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| I want to improve my communicative ability, but I don't konwn how to communicate with others,especially in front of strangers,I relly don't known how to open my mouth,but in my inner herat I extremly want to talk with them sincerely!is there anyone have the same condition with me, or is there anyone has a good way to get in touch with others , please give me some suggestions, Ii would be grateful for you if you can give me some advices,I really need your help, my dear friend,please!!!thants a lot!!may glad bless you and me!!! |
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lxuyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1):If we are shy about it, start off with smile, then graduate to a friendly wave and hello.:tiger23::tiger40: Good night 2010-08-07 02:10:14
lxuyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1):If we are shy about it, start off with smile, then graduate to a friendly wave and hello.:tiger23::tiger40: Good night 2010-08-07 02:10:14
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As what have mentioned before, first you should conquer you fearness inside. Ask yourself from time to time, are you really want to overcome this weakness, ... Then tell yourself: that's not big deal, I have mouth and I am the master of my mouth. Just open it up and say anything, even through it is nonsense, I say it, then I am the winner. The second step, you need to observe how the other start up a conversion, pay special attention to the subjects, their intentions and funny jokes ... Then you can write them down or just keep it in mind, each word ... In the third step, the real practise. Initially you start a conversation with the joke or stories you previous prepared or any subject that commonly disscussed. Probably it will be like you are reciting a speach at the beginning ...but it's the most important part, in this part you will adjust yourself incrementally. You will add your own views on the subject and you can build up your confidence. Your know, conversation is an interation between two speakers, so you really don't have to worry so much. Maybe you just need some good subjects for different person. To reiterate, just say sth, that's the key. at least you can say "hello?" to everybody ... besides, everything can be prepared ahead of time, so find some interesting subjects though your meticulous obervation in life ... |
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