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[交流] Always being alone

Friends around me are having boyfreinds one by one,and now it is not early to have a companion anymore.Sometimes I am a little worried,especially when I realize that I am getting older and older.But when it comes to affection,I feel anxiety and may be a little frightened.Whenever I feel that I am going to be close to some guy,I want to draw back.I might be too cold.And I always want to keep a distance with boys.I don't know what is wrong with me.There are boys who are very good in my opinion,but when I put someone in a special place and it seems to me to be unacceptable to live with someone no matter who he is or how good is he.I want to be married one day,but it makes me scared thinking of living with someone alone.Something must be wrong with me,what shall I do?

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fangye0413(金币+1):thank you for your kindness~ 2010-06-29 08:48:21
You like Lin Daiyu.

I think you are a good girl.

I know girls are not very confident in themselves although they are very excellent and outstanding.

Therefore, be confident and Smile!

Best wishes~


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Originally posted by xia_chong at 2010-06-28 20:07:31:
You like Lin Daiyu.

I think you are a good girl.

I know girls are not very confident in themselves although they are very excellent and outstanding.

Therefore, be confident and Smile!

...

You are so good,thank you~
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fangye0413(金币+1):thank you for your remind~ 2010-06-29 08:48:47
Why do you keep distance with boys?
Don't you worried about your appearance?
Or not have enough confidence?
Or have psychological repellence?
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Originally posted by xia_chong at 2010-06-28 20:07:34:
I got the chair.

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It's my chair belonging to me.
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fangye0413(金币+1):thank you for your kindness~ 2010-06-29 08:49:06
the person who can save u is yourself.
just to go to find the advantages when keeping with boys
and try to trust in boys and get along with boys

good luck to u, good girl
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fangye0413(金币+1):good idea~thank you~ 2010-06-29 08:49:32
Everything gona be okay, relax, have more activities with your friends when it's possible, best wished to you~~~
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fangye0413(金币+4):wow,great~ 2010-06-29 08:50:31
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Originally posted by fansanjun at 2010-06-28 20:42:51:


It's my chair belonging to me.

OK! Be quick next time!

Usually, girls are not very confident.

They want to get close to boys, as we boys like to be close to girls.

I think the best way is

1) list your advantages and strong points, like tender, quiet, beautiful, tolerant, considerate, good at drawing or dancing, good at leading, good at talking, or anything you are good at and happy to do...
which will make you feel confident!


2) smile at everybody. Smile is the best thing in the world. I like people's smiles. I like the pouch(眼袋) when someone smiles. Boys are easy to be tempted by girls' smiles, at least it works for me.

3) Cherish what I have had at present and don't be too careless.
see
http://blog.sina.com.cn/wangfang
Here is a blog by Wang Fang who I think is a love expert. You can read her writings, which would be helpful to you.


Best wishes again~
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fangye0413(金币+1):wishes for you ,dear,you will find anyone is one part of ours~ 2010-06-29 08:52:11
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Originally posted by fansanjun at 2010-06-28 20:42:19:
Why do you keep distance with boys?
Don't you worried about your appearance?
Or not have enough confidence?
Or have psychological repellence?

I have friends,but I feel scared of being too close.I feel horrible to be too close.So I talk about it.I am trying to change.
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