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jevons007

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[交流] 【Leisure chat】the more you require, maybe the less you get(my own opinion abou 已有17人参与

Last night I heard one sentence that teach me a lot. It was “the more you require maybe the less you get ”. I thought a lot.

   All the time I think I’m a young boy. There are many things I don’t understand or I can say I don’t want to make me to understand. But nowadays I realize that I’m wrong.  I’m going to graduate, after that I am 23. I must grew up. Actually I have grew up.

  Love, all the people run after forever. It is one of the most important things in our lives. Everyone wants to get. But after we got it , we don’t know how to do next. Maybe sometimes we would be at a loss what to do. We just give our everything we have , whereas we don’t think what is our lovers want.

So do I !

  In my mind I want love to be romantic, passionate, sweet, and so on. All the time I ask for that. But I get what?  I don’t know . I just know most of the time ,I am happiness. I always ask my lover. You should do that , you should think about this things , why don’t you do…and so on? I think it is right . It virtually gives us so much pressure . We find that sometimes we are not happy.

Why? I ask why many a time .

Nowadays I know that .

Love is not as passion all the time. It needs calmness. It must be calmness. So to speak you have a treasure  which is your favorite thing. Can you love it all the time ?  can you put it on your hand all the time? No , you can’t ,and everybody  can’t do that . As a person , a so common person why we require a lot ? why we ask our lovers to chat with us everyday? Why we ask our lovers to miss us everyday? Why we ask our lovers to do this this this this and that  things? Why we ask our lovers not to this this this this and that things ? Everybody needs private space, and they have their own secretes. Don’t ask more , don’t require more . we must know love is two persons’ thing we must try our best together.  Don’t be nervous. Just Let the chips fall. Not chatting with you everyday is real love. Not saying “love you” everyday is real love. We have to face to our love our life together for many years. So simple is beauty. Just believe your love , enjoy your times together. Love is great!!!!

  Don’t require a lot , the more you require ,maybe the less you get !!!!
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Love needs calmness,
I agree with you.
2楼2010-04-30 08:29:46
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good paper!It is difficut for me to understand something.
3楼2010-04-30 08:30:48
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i'm a college,when you know that's lots of things you don't know,you begin to study to know it
4楼2010-04-30 08:35:01
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You are a rational person or emotional person?
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Maybe I can't agree with you. yes, we should never ask for more. girls espeacially should have independence. But I also believe that in the long journey of love, it needs cultivating with a careful heart and tenderness. when the passion fades away, it's not that we should sit aside doing nothing, thinking that it's normal just to endure. I believe both sides need to do something to fiind back passion so that their love is enduring and longlasting. actually i and my boyfriend are going though such crisis, but I do gain a lot of inspirations from the title, so thankyou.
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jevons007

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Originally posted by kakalove10 at 2010-04-30 08:45:07:
You are a rational person or emotional person?

maybe i am a raemotional person,haha
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jevons007

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Originally posted by shblithium at 2010-04-30 08:49:17:
Maybe I can't agree with you. yes, we should never ask for more. girls espeacially should have independence. But I also believe that in the long journey of love, it needs cultivating with a care ...

what i wrote is just my own opinion and experience ,hehe!
i believe u and ur bf will be beatific for ever!
best wishes!
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8楼2010-04-30 09:23:19
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jevons007

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Originally posted by 929776857 at 2010-04-30 08:35:01:
i'm a college,when you know that's lots of things you don't know,you begin to study to know it

u know we must learn till we die ,hehe ,so come on man !
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Good paper! I think love is rewardless. You will get much in the process you give. You will learn to how to share your joy and bitter with others. You will find life is so beautiful and you are so happy with love without any burden.
10楼2010-04-30 10:42:50
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