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[交流] 好文章-那就是生活

Successes don’t always last, but likewise, neither do failures; a broken heart is not always final, and that dwelling on the past can never change it.
成功并非人生终点，失败并非世界末日；一颗支离破碎的心并非最终的结局，沉湎于过去将永远改变不了未来。

That’s life

“That’s life.”“ Life’s rough.” “Of course it’s not fair. Life’s nor fair.” I have heard these words many times, and still I am tempted to roll my eyes and sulk like a child every time I hear them again. Is that really life¬----a series of disappointments that hinder us briefly, while we sigh, “That’s life” and move on?

I prefer to speculate that there are laws that govern our lives, not just random hardships are thrown in here and there to make us miserable. One thing in life that I have learned is not to envy the lives of others, for the difficulties in my own life have served to reveal and strengthen the laws that hold it together and make me a better person。

I don’t envy those who have never felt pain. Though maybe they have never experienced loneliness for weeks at a time or been tempted to give up altogether, they have also never had the opportunity of discovering true friendship. The one who lives an unburdened life is the one who has never felt an embrace from someone who can tell he is hurting, though he says nothing; nor watched in surprise as his best friend arrived at his grandfather’s funeral; nor had a tissue passed to him by someone who noticed the tears; nor smiled, if briefly, at the antics of a friend trying to make him laugh despite the circumstances; nor heard the words, “I would miss you,” when life seems impossible to endure any longer
I have been through all of these things, and though it has been the narrow road to travel, l would not trade the struggles and the low points in my life for anything. It is when we carry the heaviest burdens that we realize the relief can be found in a friend lifting them for us. I don’t envy those who have never made a mistake, and I envy even less those who only claim to have never made one. Though maybe they have never had to be chastised or held accountable for their actions, it is only when a person does wrong, and admits it, that he will truly experience growth.

The one who lives a life free from the regret of past faults is the one who has never learned the great worth of the words “I’m sorry.” and the even greater worth of words “I forgive you”; nor felt the triumph of a completed task, even if its only purpose was to correct a mistake; nor come to realization that successes don’t always last, but likewise, neither do failures; nor seen that a broken heart is not always final, and that dwelling on the past can never change it.

I have seen these effects in my own life, and though I often make mistakes and quickly forget much of what I have just said, I would never trade any of my many shortcomings for anything. Limitless wisdom is to be found with the realization of each one.

Every experience in my life has brought with its immense learning，and even if I could erase some aspect of my life, I would choose to cherish the memories of my best times and learn from the memories of my worst. It is the pain, mistakes, and persecution in life that truly mold strong men and women, and help us realize that the things of the greatest value are the lessons that are learned from experience. Those people I mentioned ----those with the seemingly easy lives---are obviously fictional, yet easily envied. No life is easy. Hardships are inevitable; it is the learning process that is optional.

In my daily life I try to understand that the trails I know will come are not hindrances; rather, they will be sources of strength. The law of life I consider from day to day is the law that my life will not be easy, and I must learn to face the trails as well as to learn from them. After all, that’s life.

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