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闲吟居士

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[求助] I have a dilemma here 已有5人参与

Today I want to talk about myself and seek some advice from you guys with a gloden heart.
During the past three years, I have taught English in Shenzhen. Now I'm teaching in a key junior middle school in my hometown-a small city in
Anhui Province. Considering our provincial capital Hefei is developing very fast, I want to go to Hefei and seek more opportunities to develop
myself. You know, the welfare and frastructure in Hefei are better than those in my hometown and in future my kid(OK, I'm single now) can have
better education. Hefei is trying to attracting more and more people to construct it and it's a good opportunity for me to join the trend. In the
meantime, I can use my major on many different platforms which my hometown can not offer. What I learned in Shenzhen and my knowledge
accumulation which has no access to share is another pity for me. As far as I'm concerned, Hefei is not far away from my hometown and I have
a big platform to use my talents. By the way, my work experiences and my education background are very competitive even in provincial capital
so that I have confidence in having a bright future. What I worry about is when I come to Hefei, I repeat the lonely life in Shenzhen and turn
a working machine. I fail to balance my job and my life again. What's more, an unfamiliar environment is not easy for me to find a reliable
boyfriend. Living in a big city makes a girl weak in feelings and I certainly know I'm not that strong-minded. I have been troubled by this problem
for a period. Don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. I know it well. In reality, I just can't practice it. would you kindly give me some
suggestions?
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w1l203

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甘蔗汁源

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3楼2018-02-18 10:22:46
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spsgirl

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Just go ahead,I believe you, and you are single now,you can go everywhere you want.
我们一起成长
4楼2018-02-28 15:34:27
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英论阁

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To make your kid a better future, you need first find him/her a good father. As your said, Hefei is a bigger city, which brings you more chances to achieve your career dream as well as meeting better persons. You may easily settle down with someone in your home town and have a comfortable life, but the possibility of seeing a bigger world and bring you and your kid to a new level is also less. Life in a big city is tough, but it also means more possibilities. So, this is a gamble: you may lose. But if you don't throw the dice out, you don't even have the change to win. Good luck.
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虫子说话

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你的英文真好,求教
6楼2018-03-02 11:50:46
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张涛0226

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嗯!看了一下···怎么讲呢!随便说两句吧···
1.男朋友,不要太着急,宁缺毋滥。宁愿单着也不要随随便便,相信你这么好的女孩子,一定会有好福报的。人要学会对自己负责。
2.合肥,你们的省会城市,省会有其他地级市没有的机会、教育、医疗和福利。这是确实很诱人。但是你要想清楚,这些是不是你真心想要的,对你来说,是不是最重要的。毕竟每个人想法不一样,追求不一样,尊重每个人的想法,只要你想清楚了!对我来讲,无论城市再大再繁华,如果万家灯火没有一盏是为你而亮,我回觉得这个城市是冰凉的。城市再小再破败,有一盏昏暗的烛光痴痴地等着我的归来,我也会觉得幸福,心里很温暖!
3.不知道为什么觉得你有点悲观,给你一杯鸡汤“即使深陷淤泥,也要心向阳光”。加油吧!小妹妹
精诚所至,金石为开
7楼2018-05-14 17:32:27
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frozenfox7

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一个dota2就能解决的事,没必要那么着急。。。
8楼2018-05-17 21:39:15
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huhaitao1223

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时间终将流逝,唯有留下勤奋的痕迹。
9楼2018-05-18 19:11:46
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缇小缇小

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完全可以去的,只要你有理想的平台。你担心的事情只要你有心就不会发生。而你既然提出来了这个问题那就说明你肯定是有心的,所以不要犹豫。
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