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Yesterday,my older brother gave a message to my dad.He wanted me to be an accountant in his company in hangzhou.But I refused him.I think it is not benifical to my career.But my job is benifical to my career,although the salary is low.Besides,that city is far from my hometown,it is not good for me to find a bf.But he always calls to my dad,and hope me to be accountant.Because he needs a realible person to be accountant 发自小木虫Android客户端 |
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thanks for your advice.It is not benifical to my career if I want to be accoutant in the future.The major thing is 网络主播 in his company.Besides,I dont trust him,though he is my consin and rich.He cant consider my future at all 发自小木虫Android客户端 |
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| Also you have to take into consideration that lots of accountants make fake records for their own companies. Your brother needs you so desperately. There might be some reasons. So the question is...will you be willing to do this for him? Will you be happy to move to another city? Is your brother reliable and competent? If you choose to go there, you will make more money, which may bring some happiness to you; if you reject his offer and live your own life, you can develop your career and stay close to your parents, which also brings happiness. Which option do you prefer? |
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i think it's important to do your own career, but are you sure your choice is totally right? and i think hangzhou is a nice place and i think it's no need to worry that you couldn't find a bf, there are many good chance, maybe you can change your decision, it's hard to say. 发自小木虫Android客户端 |
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i would say, you need to have a talk with your brother. ask him about his own understanding of job and career, and his plan on your career. if he has put your next 5-10 years of the company in related to your life. i would say: you may need to think about his invitation. We can talk more about a career after several years. because you are still young atthe moment. haha [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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It depends how much you can improve yourself at your current position and whether you absolutely like it. meanwhile, Hangzhou is a big city as someone has already mentioned, maybe you can get a better opportunity there. thus just have a conversation with your brother, telling him about your plan of what you want to do in the future , maybe he can recommend you to some suitable positions even you do not accept his invitation. After all, big city could provide more options 发自小木虫IOS客户端 |
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