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[交流] 【实用英语04】男人女人都爱听的7句话 已有5人参与






【实用英语04】男人女人都爱听的7句话

One of the intriguing things about a relationship is figuring out the exact words that willwoo him, wow her, and win his heart. Here are some suggestions for the men and women in your life.
恋爱比较有意思的就是,琢磨出对方爱听的甜言蜜语,然后赢得TA的爱恋。以下就为您列出男人女人都爱听的7句甜言蜜语。


1. “Yes.”
“好的。”


And we are not talking about the obvious “yes.” Men want love too, and emotionalintimacy, and the security that comes with committed partnership. And it all begins with a positive response from the woman he wants. “Yes, I noticed you too.” “Yes, here is my phone number.” “Yes, I’d love to meet you for dinner.” Both men and women love someone who is willing to try new things, go tonew places, and have a “yes” attitude in general.
此处我们说的可不只是简单的同意“好的”哦。男人也渴望被爱,需要亲密感情,以及伴侣关系带来的安全感。只要心爱的女人给予肯定的回应,对他说:“对,我也注意到你了哦”;“给,这是我的电话号码”或 “嗯,非常乐意跟您共进晚餐”,他就会得到满足。一般,男人女人都爱跟态度积极、勇于尝试新事物新地方的人交往。


2. “I’d rather be with you … ”
“我更愿意跟你待在一起……”


... than do whatever it is that’s keeping you apart at the moment. Let’s face it, these days, life moves at a crazy pace. The demands of work, family, friends—and evenmundane tasks like grocery shopping—can consume every spare minute. It’s easy to let optional items, like time together, slip to the bottom of the “to do” list. But even when unavoidable things get in the way, your partner likes to hear that they are also important to you.
此刻我更愿意跟你待在一起,不想去做XX事情。不得不承认,现代社会生活节奏太快。工作家庭朋友——甚至买菜这种日常琐事——都能填满所有空余时间。于是,约会这种可做可不做的事情很容易靠边儿站。其实,就算手上有非做不可的事情,让另一半知道你牵挂着他/她也很受用。


3. “Are you free Saturday night?”
“周六晚上有空吗?”


Date nights are important—even if you have been together for years. A man also likes to be pursued as much as he likes to pursue, so don’t be afraid to ask him out once in a while, ladies. Don’t ever stop carving out that quality time for each other.
哪怕你俩已相处多年,约会之夜也还是很重要。男人喜欢追女人,也享受被女人追求。所以,女人不妨偶尔主动约男人出去,共度二人甜蜜时光。


4. “There’s something you do that I find adorable.”
“我发现有时你很可爱。”


When you notice—and love—something about your partner that isn’t obvious to world, it tells them you’re interested enough in them to pay attention to the small things. It also confirms the intimate nature of your relationship. Be aware of the cute, charming things they do that you find irresistible. Then tell them what you admire!
如果你发现TA有别人看不到的可爱之处,说明你真的非常非常在乎TA所以才会关注这些细微末节。这也表示你俩关系真的亲密无间。留心他/她令你无法抗拒的可爱迷人之处,并将你的喜爱说出来吧!


5. “That looks good on you.”
“你看上去帅呆了/美极了。”


This is not a revelation, but how many of us forget to acknowledge our loved ones when they are looking good? It is well understood that women appreciate positive feedback about their appearance—but so do men. He wants to look good … and often works hard to get there. How nice to be told sometimes that it’s working.
这句美言众人皆知。可现实中又有多少人真正做到呢?人们都知道女人喜欢别人赞美她的容貌——其实男人也是啊。男人也希望自己看上去又帅又酷,并为此不遗余力。有时夸赞这么一句绝对受用哦。


6. “You know what? You are right.”
“哎,还是你说得对啊。”


The ability to admit when we are wrong, and give credit to your partner when they are right, is BIG! It’s not easy to put our ego’s aside, but it’s important to be able to do so, because a relationship is not about winning.
承认自己的错误而对方是正确的,这是很了不起的事情!放下自我绝非易事,可这么做却很重要。要知道,恋爱并不是谁赢谁输的问题。

7. “I really like your friends (or kids or family members).”
“我很喜欢你的朋友/小孩/家人。”


Most women are communal creatures, and relationships are very important to them. So it means a lot when you say something wonderful about the people she loves. Tell her you think her dad is wise, or one of her kids is especially talented, or her close friend is fun to be with. By complimenting the people closest to your partner, you’re affirming them as well.
多数女人是群居动物,特看重人际关系。如果你喜欢她身边的人,夸她老爸睿智、孩子聪明、朋友风趣,她会很开心。爱屋及乌,夸她身边的人也让她很有面子呢。







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呵呵,简直是恋爱的哲学,不过对维护家庭关系也很有启发。
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