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now, i'm a sophomore ,during my past two years ,i feel a bit disappointed . although i have get the certifications which is necessary for me ,but i still couldn't feel the sense of complishments . now i start to doubt the aim to come to college .i still remember the day i enter into the solemn college gate ,at that time ,i told myself "hard boy ,you must do you best to get what you want ,persist in what you gonna do !''.but with time goes, i begin to shock ,things around me mess up,whatever the relation between my classmates or me or even "dear friend" ,they all shock the foundations of my minds. i come to recognize that when dreams meet reality,it will crash.actually,it is .i can't understand why it can be .when i was a child, i always dreamed that a college student would so free ,could do whatever you want to do leagally . am i wrong ? now ,who can tell me ,how can i deal with these matters ? |
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lppv(金币+5): difficulties exist everywhere. depression is common. but we should learn to accept it and adjust the mood. complain less and enjoy more. 2011-06-13 18:02:49
phu_grassman(ESEPI+1): We are supposed to grow up. So college is just where we learn something and recharge ourselves. Let's face it with a strong mind. 2011-06-13 22:21:34
lppv(金币+5): difficulties exist everywhere. depression is common. but we should learn to accept it and adjust the mood. complain less and enjoy more. 2011-06-13 18:02:49
phu_grassman(ESEPI+1): We are supposed to grow up. So college is just where we learn something and recharge ourselves. Let's face it with a strong mind. 2011-06-13 22:21:34
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You know, sometimes, i mean when i was in college, i used to have the same feeling like you just have now. Boring, unhappy, even confused......especially when i came across with difficulties. But once this dark period is gone, i turned around and thought carefully: why did this happen? what should i do if it happened again? Actually, there are barriers and difficulties everywhere, and we all know this. That's to say the dark period can not be avoided. So, if this is the case, why should we be unhappy when unhappiness happen? It's difficult for us to calm dowm or keep laughing when some bad things happen. But this is the really problem. At the same time, we shouldn't just focus on the destination or the goal, because the way and the journey to the goal are also colorful and interesting. So, complain less, enjoy more.....  |
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witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thanks a lot for your suggestions. sometimes, when our dreams couldn't come true right away, maybe we really should "stop" for a while to enjoy some other things. "Just try", I appreciate this word. Just try, we needn't make everything go well during a short term, instead, we can make each (even tiny) progress during a short time, what's more, the success, even small, can make us confident and interested. thanks again, for your suggestions are probably helpful to lz~ Bless him, and you. :tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-13 19:41:53
witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thanks a lot for your suggestions. sometimes, when our dreams couldn't come true right away, maybe we really should "stop" for a while to enjoy some other things. "Just try", I appreciate this word. Just try, we needn't make everything go well during a short term, instead, we can make each (even tiny) progress during a short time, what's more, the success, even small, can make us confident and interested. thanks again, for your suggestions are probably helpful to lz~ Bless him, and you. :tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-13 19:41:53
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Good luck for you. May be you are right, do sth rather than complain is more useful. I am very admire and miss the ivory tower life. We would not realize that we should cherish the college life only when we have graduated. Do it just now, today. As a matter of fact that, we can do as much as during these period. we can participate the activity conduted by the various association. We can exercise the writting, painting and so on. May be some one playing the guitar during the wonderful night piece with his girlfriend or other friends. Prepare a journey during the holiday, do some exercise, pursue who you love, earn some money or experience by tutor and so on. You may be confident and more interesting base on every progress you make. Just try. You will be successful. Do not waste your time care about the future and the past. Make every effort to what you like, what you want.....Remember that, be more masculine. Bless for you. |
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phu_grassman(金币+5, ESEPI+1): Nice suggestion. Yes, life usually doesn't go as we expect. As long as we have belief in ourselves and keep going, we can elevate ourselves and grow up. 2011-07-12 15:57:12
phu_grassman(金币+5, ESEPI+1): Nice suggestion. Yes, life usually doesn't go as we expect. As long as we have belief in ourselves and keep going, we can elevate ourselves and grow up. 2011-07-12 15:57:12
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Hi, little guy Don't complain and be confused. when we think the life we experienced, something may be opposite to our original intention, or last so long time to make us temporary lost. it is an inevitable process in our special youth-period. whatever you do, please believe yourself, and find a wide outlook or positive attitude towards your life and future. if you feel really unhappy or empty, you can have a try to develop your interest in an unknown field, or find an exact aim to struggle for. whatever you do ,you must do something to enrich and improve yourself. and then, you will find a broad sky in reality and in your heart. Come on! when you feel bothering and uncertainty to your life now, you can try to calm yourself and clear your thought. I think reading can purify your soul, make your mind and heart colorful and mature, Please go ahead. Come on, guy! trust yourself. God bless! [ Last edited by waitingwy on 2011-7-12 at 17:10 ] |
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