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[交流] there is another classmate going to marry

A lot of my classmates have been married, some classmates in primary school, some classmates in middle school also some in college. And tomorrow there will be another one going to marry.
Who will he go to marry? Not his first girl friend, not his second girl friend either. A person I have never known and I am not interested in that.
Look back and I find the facts. Most of those classmates who have been married did not marry his/her former lover. Isn’t it sad? I only get the conclusion: love and marriage are two things which hardly happen simultaneously.

Another question: is marriage a pleasant thing?
In my mind, marriage is like a cord or a chain which would bind the people. Marriage may take away the freedom and push you to do this or not to do that. You cannot live for yourself because you have more responsibilities than before. On the opposite side, though, it takes away the so-called freedom, you may still be happy because you are willing. Just as me, for I am a moderator in English cafe now, to some extent, I lose freedom and I am bound here. But, I am willing; I would like this, so I still quite enjoy this.

You are at outside, you won't feel the warmness in the room. Warm room or dreary room, depends on your attitude. After all, disadvantages and advantages coexist everywhere. When you are bored in the room, go outside to breathe some fresh air.

Try to make your marriage happens according the love, and try to make your marriage sweet.
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Originally posted by liufawen at 2011-04-27 22:16:14:
what about you?

as for me, such a thing is a little far....
人活着好没意思啊
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小木虫(沙发+1,金币+0.5):恭喜抢个沙发,再给个红包
best wishes。。。。

[ Last edited by yangbin5119 on 2011-4-27 at 15:40 ]
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小木虫(金币+0.2):抢了个小板凳,给个红包
best wishes!

when will you  marry?

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so   May your  love and marriage arehappen simultaneously   
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