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【Discussion】how much money to give is proper when others get married?
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one student in my laboratory will get married in a week. as for the convention, i need to give him a red envelope. how much money should i give to him? do as others or give the right quantity with my ability? in this city, give money to the one to be married is called "sui_li". and it is very serious, at least 600RMB. as a student in school, to give those money is a diffcult thing to do although i have done once in September.however, it is not a good thing when they all give 600 while i give with my ability which is far less than it. i know i'll do as others in the end. but what for? in my opinon, i think "sui_li" should be a form to show my congratuations and wondeful wish to the new couple. now, it turns to be a heavy chain. [ Last edited by hecuihuapeng on 2011-1-12 at 19:05 ] |
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三更雨~(金币+1):I think we are good friends and we understand with each other, by the way, when I get married, how much money will you give me? :D 2011-01-12 21:26:27
三更雨~(金币+1):I think we are good friends and we understand with each other, by the way, when I get married, how much money will you give me? :D 2011-01-12 21:26:27
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to a student, 600yuan is a large number, i am not able to afford it. i do agree with you, it should be a form to show sincere wishes and congratulations, should not be a matter of the number of money.   if you give less than others, will the one who is going to marry understand you? |
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