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[交流] 【Discussion】how much money to give is proper when others get married?

one student in my laboratory will get married in a week. as for the convention, i need to give him a red envelope. how much money should i give to him? do as others or give the right quantity with my ability? in this city, give money to the one to be married is called "sui_li". and it is very serious, at least 600RMB. as a student in school, to give those money is a diffcult thing to do although i have done once in September.however, it is not a good thing when they all give 600 while i give with my ability which is far less than it. i know i'll do as others in the end. but what for? in my opinon, i think "sui_li" should be a form to show my congratuations and wondeful wish to the new couple. now, it turns to be a heavy chain.

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三更雨~(金币+1):I think we are good friends and we understand with each other, by the way, when I get married, how much money will you give me? :D 2011-01-12 21:26:27
to a student, 600yuan is a large number, i am not able to afford it.
i do agree with you, it should be a form to show sincere wishes and congratulations, should not be a matter of the number of money.

if you give less than others, will the one who is going to marry understand you?
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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-01-12 19:12:18:
to a student, 600yuan is a large number, i am not able to afford it.
i do agree with you, it should be a form to show sincere wishes and congratulations, should not be a matter of the number of mo ...

i'm not sure. but to give less than others is definitely improper. after all i don't want to be a troublemaker. the less trouble the better. so i'll do as others. although  it may contain less benidiction. above all, when i get married the money will go back ,if no inflation..
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Originally posted by hecuihuapeng at 2011-01-12 19:21:34:

i'm not sure. but to give less than others is definitely improper. after all i don't want to be a troublemaker. the less trouble the better. so i'll do as others. although  it may c ...

that is ok, anyhow, you are also going to marry in the not-too-distant future.
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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-01-12 19:28:37:

that is ok, anyhow, you are also going to marry in the not-too-distant future.

that reminds me.  when it's my turn, should i tell him? will he think my ture purpose is asking for the monry back? after all, i get married in a long future at least after graduation.  and even in the same lab, our communications is little. oh, so annoy.
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Originally posted by hecuihuapeng at 2011-01-12 19:38:44:

that reminds me.  when it's my turn, should i tell him? will he think my ture purpose is asking for the monry back? after all, i get married in a long future at least after graduation.  and even  ...

if you give less or give nothing, what trouble will it be ?
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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-01-12 19:42:05:

if you give less or give nothing, what trouble will it be ?

if you put yourself in his shoes to figure out ,you will  know .  if i were him, i may think what a stingy person. in some way, the money reflects the relationship between ench other.
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Originally posted by hecuihuapeng at 2011-01-12 19:50:19:

if you put yourself in his shoes to figure out ,you will  know .  if i were him, i may think what a stingy person. in some way, the money reflects the relationship between ench other.

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