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[交流] 【Discussion】Maintaining Who You Are in a Relationship

Hi, I’m Donna Bonnis. I am a life and relationship coach. And I own NY dating coach in New York City.
In this clip, we’re gonna talk how to maintain the power in your relationship. Because the big problem is you’re really attracted with who you are, that’s why you get together and you became a different person once you are getting into the relationship.
You’ve got keep maintaining what’s important to you, independence and things that you’ll do outside the relationship, don’t make your whole life become about the relationship. Keep your friends. Friends are really important and keep going, and don’t make everything about the other person. They’ll lose interest you. Maintain being the people that you were when you first met them, cause they are attracted to. It doesn’t mean you don’t know you’re going to deeper and close to each other, you do. But don’t give up yourself. You have to be a whole person to love yourself to attract somebody else. No one can love you unless you love yourself.
But the most important thing is you don’t look for others for your happiness. You have to own your happy on your own, they might make you happier. Your happiness is coming from just you.
This is Donna Bonnis, Life and Relationship coach in New York City.
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i want to be a happy butterfly~~
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在恋爱关系中保持自我
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在对的时候，遇见对的人，是一生幸福。
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在恋爱关系中保持自我

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i never kown how to grab a sofa and also don't figure out what he said somewhat
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the most important thing is you don’t look for others for your happiness. You have to own your happy on your own. I know now, thanks for your share
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