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闲吟居士

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[交流] Struuuuggling to find the inner peace

During the past days, I've been trying to concentrate on some examinations and read a lot. To be honest, I feel quite relieved and free
when I manage to communicate with those authors. I can see and think with the help of their eyes and experiences, thus broadening my view
unconsciously. Once in a while, I'm affected by those mainstream voices that advise me to get a steady job and find a  reliable man to marry.
I'm tortured by those words from my parents and the warm-hearted relatives. I feel lost and begin to doubt the meaning of life. I seem to be an
outlaw and a monster that frequently betray their wills. I fail to talk with them or persuade them to accept my attitudes toward life. Am I an
independent individual to control my life trail? But few of them are patient enough to listen to me. I often turn to my friends. I usually absorb
a lot of energy from my peers. They can understand me and often comfort me by narrating their similar annoyances. Since most of us are
pushed toface similar dilemma, I have no reason to complain about it. It's quite tiresome to force ourselves to follow the so called mainstream.
For me, it's never a wise choice to imitate others and neglect our inner desire. Quite  few ones can really treasure their unique value. It appears
to be a safe way to look like others. The world is noisy but I can hardly go against my will. Struuuuggling is hard, but going against our will and
inner desire is sure to be easy?
Well, I have no idea what I am saying.
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Chancy007

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“ It appears to be a safe way to look like others. ” I totally agree with you! That's so ridiculous!! I read some forbidden books to check our history and culture, then I come to understand parts of the reason..... but still, that's ridiculous.

So whenever you feel confused, just come here I'm sure this will help!

And here is a sentence that I read these days. Somehow I think it may help you--"Until you realise how easily it is for your mind to be manipulated, you  remain the puppet of SOMEONE ELSE's game."
没有话说。希望自己一直在进步。
15楼2018-07-13 02:16:19
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specialych

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Common annouyance coming out of the process of "being mature" !  I think a good way to keep inner peace is to ignore meaningless persuasion.
To be perfectly imperfect
2楼2018-07-12 13:28:23
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2楼: Originally posted by specialych at 2018-07-12 13:28:23
Common annouyance coming out of the process of "being mature" !  I think a good way to keep inner peace is to ignore meaningless persuasion.

A strong will is needed too.

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3楼2018-07-12 14:04:18
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00waterh

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it's hard to follow our heart.
we are not just ourselves.
4楼2018-07-12 14:18:36
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molmolsong

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I think I said it somewhere else that the value of life is to do something that we really want to do, and love the one we really love. someone said: no, mate, you are too naive. it is more likely an ideal situation. we cannot achieve those what we want. But here, i would like to further explain, whether we can achieve that level or not really depends on what is the thing that we really want. For example, a friend of mine said what he wants to do is becoming rich and buying whatever he wants. I told him: what you are talking about is not a certain thing, it is only about a situation, you need to give me more details. For example, you want to become a good teacher, or you want to become a successful businessman, or what else. Let's look back at 10 or 20 years ago, when you were a little boy, what you were realling thinking about, what kind of stuffs can give you satisfaction? When we are talking about an ideal life, make it achieveable for a 3 to 5 years plan is good. Someone are looking forward to far far away, so what they can see is that dreams are only dreams; while others are looking at a short present or the next 1 or 2 years, so what they can see is that it is better to accept the truth and try to settle down based on what we have at the moment. A real independ situation means economically independent plus independent way of thinking. Well, i dont really know what I am saying as well. hahaha
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5楼: Originally posted by molmolsong at 2018-07-12 14:22:29
I think I said it somewhere else that the value of life is to do something that we really want to do, and love the one we really love. someone said: no, mate, you are too naive. it is more likely an  ...

hahaha,you  can   make  a  friend  with  the  poster.you   have   same  value.hahaha

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不知不觉开始懂事了......
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闲吟居士

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5楼: Originally posted by molmolsong at 2018-07-12 14:22:29
I think I said it somewhere else that the value of life is to do something that we really want to do, and love the one we really love. someone said: no, mate, you are too naive. it is more likely an  ...

huh, you.'ve improved quite a lot at guiding others to make career planning
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7楼: Originally posted by 1372015 at 2018-07-12 14:38:23
hahaha,you  can   make  a  friend  with  the  poster.you   have   same  value.hahaha
...

i am trying to prove that our English Cafe is always at an advanced level.
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