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[交流] Is it feasible to find a boyfriend/girlfriend on this board?

When I studied in CCNU, I have known this website and I scaned the posts once in a while. Then I found many postgraduates and doctoral
students posted here and intend to find their ideal boyfriend or girlfriend. When I read some posts that some lucky dogs found their soulmates,
I was inspired to post here and went on the journey to find the one. After I posted, I received many private messages saying they are eager to
know me. At first, I felt it was a smart way to make friends and I can know many learned guys here. However, Internet is such a complicated
region where various kinds of people gather here. Without scientific filter criteria, almost 95% of the conversations are meaningless to me.
Some guys just freely talk to you and joke around with no intention to build a serious relationship with you. Some guys act differently from
what they've said. A guy who considers himself a patient one deletes my wechat account after we have quite different views about some issues.
A short and fat guy may laugh at your appearance and show his arrogance rudely. Knowing cyber-pals and trying to make friends require great
courage and patience but few of us can devote enough attention and passion to a strange person. What's more, chatting online is not an
effective way to comprehensively know a person. It takes one more time and egergy to tell whether you can match with each other. If there is
a great distance between the two, they will share fewer and fewer topics with time going on. Without a strong heart and mutual trust, few
can succeed in finding the one. Who is willing to give up this rare opportunity? After all, there are thousands of highly educated guys here.
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i think you may try to think out of the box. it is not about which way or which board or which city. it is also not about ehat time or what difference or which method, either online or offline. its all about chance and feeling. you cannot chase for love or love chase for u. I think it is more about the nature of love. when it comes to u, grasp it. when not, take it easy. haha

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2楼: Originally posted by 雪碧嫁红酒 at 2018-02-23 20:39:55
highly educated guys  don't mean  high quanlity

You are quite right

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molmolsong: 金币+2, thanks for coming 2018-02-24 11:31:47
thanks this web,i just slipped into this board and was attracted by your post,what  a beautiful sunny girl !
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molmolsong: 金币+1, nice comment 2018-02-28 07:37:54
Indeed, it's never easy, and sometimes requires courage & patience to spend time together and feel whether this is the one that you like...

But before that, it might be proper to make up a filter with your own wisdom and taste: just filter out those "candidates" who are not as genuine as you. Once they are moved to the trash (like those documents moved to the trash in your computer), they no longer bother you. Once they are interesting enough but do not match you, it's still good to acquaint with these distant friends.

In this way, the process of finding a future spouse is not a pressure (it actually never should be). Rather, an opportunity to add tastes to your single life.

Until one day, the right guy comes.
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14楼: Originally posted by Chancy007 at 2018-02-25 15:21:26
Indeed, it's never easy, and sometimes requires courage & patience to spend time together and feel whether this is the one that you like...

But before that, it might be proper to make up  ...

Just see your poster occationally. You are a friendly person. Thanks for sharing your points. Best wishes
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molmolsong: 金币+1, nice,thx for sharing 2018-03-12 21:33:19
I also wanted to find a boyfriend on this website last year, because I chose to go for phD. I once thought that I was keeping lonely for a long time. One midnight, I wrote a bottle " Are you still alive?" and threw it in Wechat, a boy replied it and wrote " Yeah, I think I am alive when I pinched myself just now...“ So, we started to chat, we found we are in the same city, we have similar education background, we have many many many topic to talk and we have same view to many things. The most amazing is that our birthday is very close (less that 24h)...Maybe that's density...Now, he is my boyfriend. To be yourself and hope you can find your density this year.
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molmolsong: 金币+2, that makes sense 2018-02-24 15:24:16
highly educated guys  don't mean  high quanlity

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molmolsong: 金币+2, nice comments 2018-02-24 11:33:11
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5楼: Originally posted by molmolsong at 2018-02-23 21:24:17
i think you may try to think out of the box. it is not about which way or which board or which city. it is also not about ehat time or what difference or which method, either online or offline. its a ...

I have a crush on you if you are a boy

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6楼: Originally posted by 闲吟居士 at 2018-02-23 21:27:48
I have a crush on you if you are a boy
...

oh. many thanks for that.

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molmolsong: 金币+2, yes 2018-02-24 11:34:08
Finding a girlfriend or boyfriend ,it is not easy,iwe not only need the courage but also the opportunity,which is by the god.

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molmolsong: 金币+2, thanks for joining in 2018-02-24 11:35:22
you are amazing!!!

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